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Character & Integrity
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Leadership & Ethics in
Volunteer Management
By Mary
Merrill
The
inscription in the book on my library shelf reads, "For Mary Merrill, with
great gratitude for all you’re doing to create a more ethical future,"
Rushworth M. Kidder
The book
was given to me in 1996 when I helped organize an ethical decision-making
workshop with Mr. Kidder, founding president of the Institute for Global
Ethics, for a state conference on volunteerism. At the time I considered his
words as a thank you for the workshops. But over the years these words have
taken on greater meaning as I have worked to strengthen leadership and
organizational structures that support volunteerism and civic engagement. I
believe ethics lie at the core of leadership and thus at the core of
volunteer administration. John Gardner, cofounder of the Independent Sector
said,
Line
workers and managers alike are increasingly concerned with the honesty and
integrity of behavior, personally, organizationally and within their
professions. (Johnston & Waymire, 1992, p. 1) defines ethics as "the
discipline of dealing with what is good and bad and with moral duty and
obligation." The Oxford English Dictionary (Compact Edition, 1970) indicates
the word "ethics" was derived from the Greek term "ethos," meaning "custom,
usage, manner or habit," and offers the following definitions: "the moral
principles by which a person is guided" and "the rules of conduct recognized
in certain associations or departments of human life."
Values
are the foundation of ethics. Background, experience, family, friends, faith
and community all shape our personal values. These values are "deep-rooted
principles which influence our attitudes and decision" (Johnston &Waymire,
1992, p.16).
As
professionals engaged in the management of volunteer programs we are faced
daily with the pressures of increasing program expectations, decreasing
funding sources, increasing requests for short term or project oriented
opportunities, pressures to maintain our traditional programs and resources,
and pressures to change, be innovative, creative and different. We may find
our days filled with dilemmas and tough choices as we are forced to make
decisions that will have direct impacts on programs and people–people who
have offered their time and talents to help us fulfill our mission. We make
choices between right and wrong based on laws, rules, procedures, etc.
One
choice is correct, based on stated criteria, and one choice is wrong.
Ethical decisions require us to make decisions based on right versus right
choices. Often there is no "correct" answer. Instead we must weight both
sides of the question and make a decision based on a core value or belief.
Consider
this example. A long time volunteer asked me if she could use my name for an
employment reference. She has been with us for a long time and I know her
well as a friend. She’s a good person and a dependable volunteer. But, I am
very uncomfortable about giving a job reference. I do not feel she has the
skills or ability to tackle the job she is seeking. I would personally never
hire her for that job. That’s not to say she wouldn’t be great in a lot of
other things. But this position is not where her strengths lie. So what do I
do?
What
kind of friend would I be if I refused to give a reference? Besides, what
harm is there. All I have to do is answer a few questions and keep my
personal opinions to myself. But if she gets the job and fails, have I
really been a friend? Do I give a reference based on the value of loyalty?
She is
not a good match for this job, no matter how much she wants it. She has
great strengths, but not in the areas required in this position. If I give
her a recommendation and she doesn’t make it on the job that reflects on me
as well. If she doesn’t get the job because of me she will be disappointed
and discouraged. Do I not give a reference based on the value of honesty?
There is
no "correct" answer to this dilemma. If I place a high value on honesty, the
ethical response is not to give the reference and to explain my reasons
fully. If I value loyalty, I may write a letter of reference carefully
choosing my words to highlight her actual skills.
Knowing
your own value system doesn’t make the decision less difficult, but it does
help clarify why I am choosing a certain course or action. "They are genuine
dilemmas because each side is firmly rooted in one of our basic core values"
(Kidder, 1995). Our ethics are reflected in the decisions we make.
Applying
one’s core values in a consistent manner leads to integrity. Earlier I
shared that the word ethos means usage or habit. Ethos relates to people’s
integrity, their character, and their credibility as persons. If your ethos
is sound, you inspire trust; you help people believe in your integrity. An
ethical person consistently applies their values so that there is congruence
between what they believe, say and do. Ethics are concerned with how a
person behaves, while values are concerned with the beliefs and attitudes
that determine how a person behaves.
Ethics
are ‘values transformed into action.’ In other words, our values are
reflected in the things we do. If we are to be respected and credible as
individuals and as professionals, it is important there be some consistency
in the values that are demonstrated by our actions. (Johnston &Waymire,
1992, p.5)
Personal
values are uniquely individual and we each tend to set priorities based on
our core values and beliefs to help us decide how to act. Because we each
have this personal value system that helps us judge what it right and what
is wrong, does not mean that ethics is purely a personal matter.
The
Josephson Institute for Ethics has identified Six Pillars of Character -
trustworthiness, respect, responsibility, fairness, caring and citizenship -
as universal values that form the universal foundation for ethical behavior.
The Jefferson Center for Character Education has identified ten "Universal
Values:" honesty, integrity, promise-keeping, fidelity, fairness, caring for
others, respect for others, responsible citizenship, pursuit of excellence
and accountability. Thomas Jeavons names five values that are essential in
the character and behavior of nonprofit, especially philanthropic,
organizations: integrity, openness, accountability, service, and a caring
demeanor (Herman, 1994). The International Association for Volunteer
Administration (AVA) has identified six core professional values:
citizenship, respect, responsibility, caring, justice and fairness, and
trustworthiness. These collective values help us determine our behavior
within our level of society.
Organizations and professions identify shared values to express public
commitment to a set of goals or social purposes and use these values as
standards for practice. Collective values build on personal values. "A
belief in collective standards suggests that there is a community beyond our
individual sphere" (Johnston &Waymire, 1992, p.23).
One of
the most important challenges for leaders is to identify collective values
and then translate those values into behavior. Anyone who has ever worked on
a process to identify organizational or association values knows that the
exercise itself is helpful in terms of gaining clarity about core values.
But the real challenge of leadership is to align values with practices. "The
believability and credibility so essential for leadership are earned when
your behavior is consistent with your beliefs" (Kouzes and Posner, 1987, p.
302)
To put
values into action consider each identified core value and ask, "What does
it mean to live this out in our day to day operation?" I find that many
times several people will use the same word to describe a value but when I
ask them to explain what they mean by that word there are very different
explanations.
A group
of employees told me they placed a very high value on communication in the
workplace. After talking in small groups about what it means to live the
value of communication, one group defined communication as a consistent,
timely flow of information from management to employees and volunteers.
Another group defined communication as respectfully listening to one another
and valuing each person’s input and opinions. We had two very diverse
interpretations of the same value. One-word lists of values often need to be
clarified with preferred behavior descriptions. It is easier to walk the
talk if the talk is clearly and appropriately stated.
AVA has
defined each of its professional values with a short statement that
describes preferred behavior. For example, the value of Autonomy is defined
as "involving persons in decisions which directly affect them, promoting
understanding and the actualization of mutual benefits inherent in any act
of volunteer service" (AVA, 1999). The first part of this statement is a
very clear description of behavior. . . involving people in the decisions
that affect them and promoting understanding. The second part, actualizing
the inherent mutual benefits, is much harder to grasp and is an example of a
statement that sounds wonderful but may have little meaning to those reading
it. I would recommend being careful to not be verbose or complex in your
descriptions.
Value
statements and behavior descriptions that are simply stated and easy to
understand will be easier to live.
As
leaders we can play an important role by facilitating discussions around the
meanings and behaviors associated with values identified for the field We
can help others understand what we believe and what guides our decision
making process. We can help to make our values shared values.
As a
profession AVA has identified a set of core values that set the standard for
how professionals will act. Our leadership role is to help make those values
the collective standards of the organization so that there is congruence
between what the organization says it believes and how it acts. Developing
volunteer resources is not a "lone ranger" operation. If the organization
does not value its volunteer resources, does not involve them in decisions
that directly affect them, you cannot do it alone. Successful volunteer
programs are built on a contract between the organization and the volunteers
to reach a chosen outcome. Volunteers coming into our organizations know
very quickly how sincerely they are wanted and valued. Effective leaders
build teams that function as cohesive units that feel like families when
possible. The best way to do this is to identify and talk about shared
values to help everyone realize that the there is a common basis for how we
reach our mission and vision.
As
managers of volunteer resources we need to weave the ethics of our
profession into the fabric of our organizations. We articulate and model a
set of core values so that they become part of the organization’s values. We
act on our values by using them as the basis for decision-making.
Acting
on our values can be very difficult and also very freeing. The leadership in
an organization where I worked changed and over time I noticed that there
was a different atmosphere and different expectation. I found myself feeling
sort of "out of step" with others around me. One day during a management
staff meeting I initiated a conversation about workplace values. It became
very clear that our new management had a new set of values. While I valued
creativity, openness and inclusion, management valued conformity, control
and hierarchy. At first I was shocked. Then I actually felt relieved to
understand that my internal discomfort was because I was not in a situation
where I could live my values. I spent about a year trying to affect a
change. But, the group values were different from my values and most of the
group was comfortable with the values in place. The choice then was mine. I
could compromise my values or I could leave.
Based on
how I had felt for many months I knew I could not compromise my values and
so I chose to leave. This whole experience was not easy, but it was freeing
for me to be able to understand what was happening and what choices I had. I
could not bring new employees and new volunteers into an organization that
did not value openness, inclusion and creativity. I was called to walk my
talk.
I began
and ended this article with a personal reflection, because any discussion of
ethics and leadership begins with the individual. Ethics begins with
identifying personal and then collective values. Leadership development also
begins with a personal quest to discover who we are. Every manager of
volunteer resources should take the time to develop a personal philosophy of
volunteer management. Think about what you believe about volunteerism and
the work of volunteers. Read the professional values identified by the
International Association of Volunteer Administration and internalize what
it means to live those values. Rushworth Kidder, How good People Make Tough
Choices, would say that ethical fitness is like physical fitness. You have
to work on it all the time so that it becomes a way of life - it is
reflected in your integrity and your leadership. A mature sense of ethics is
one of the most dominant of all leadership characteristics.
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Character
Not Charisma is the
Critical Measure of Leadership Excellence
By Y. Sankar
“Charisma is not connected to ethics, moral literacy, mentoring or the design of
an ethical culture for the organization by the leader. It is the character of
the leader that is connected to these elements of a leader’s behavior.
Leadership, variously and however defined, has been well researched.
Leadership, especially since the end of the last world war, has become the
object of intensive and extensive scrutiny. The tendency is to concentrate the
study under the rubric of psychology so there has come about a certain
specialization and monopolization: what we might call the psychologizing of
leadership. What began in antiquity as a profoundly philosophical concern – how
to find the guardian – has become demythologized, secularized, empiricized,
democratized, and psychologized, and now flourishes as a thickly tangled web
where the notions of values, ethics, and morality have been leached away,
ignored, or depreciated as irrelevant (Hodgkinson, 1993).
The underlying value
system of an organization cannot be managed in the traditional way. Issuing an
authoritative directive, for example, has little or no impact on an
organization’s value system. Organizational values are developed and reinforced
primarily through value based leadership, a relationship between a leader and
followers that is based on shared, strongly internalized values that are
advocated and acted upon by the leader. Leaders influence cultural and ethical
values by clearly articulating a vision for organizational values that employees
can believe in, communicating the vision throughout the organization, and
institutionalizing the vision through everyday behavior, rituals, ceremonies,
and symbols, as well as through organizational systems and policies (Daft,
2002).
Charisma focuses on
personality attributes such as dynamism, style, image, inspiration, symbolic
behaviors (House, 1977) impression management, emotional intelligence (Coleman,
1998), extroverted style, self-confidence, empathetic understanding, and
admiration for articulating a vision (Shamir, 1995). Leaders whose
personalities are characterized by a high degree of narcissism are driven by
intense needs for power and prestige. The use of coercive power, intimidation,
and deception are some of the strategies used to enhance the power visibility of
these charismatic leaders. As seen by most researchers, charisma is not a
concept that is feasible in today’s modern workplace. Charisma draws its
motivational power from the followers’ adoption of the transcendent mission of
the leader and their belief in the divine source of this transcendence.
The dark side of charisma
is essentially a crisis in character or character flaws of the charismatic
leader, which neutralize his/her core value of integrity and his search for
excellence. Charismatic leaders can be prone to extreme narcissism that leads
them to promote highly self-serving and grandiose aims. As a result, the
leader’s behaviors can become exaggerated, lose touch with reality, or become
vehicles for pure personal gain. In turn, they may harm the leader, followers,
and the organization. House et al (1991) have gone so far as to speculate that
there is a unique set of personality characteristics and behaviors that
distinguish these positive and negative forms of charismatic leadership – are as
they term them, socialized and personalized charisma. Their
theory holds that although the socialized charismatic leader has a high
need for power, it is counterbalanced with high activity inhibition, low
authoritarianism, an internal locus of control, high self-esteem, and low
Machiavellianism. In contrast, the personalized leader has a high need for
power that is instead coupled with low activity inhibition, high
authoritarianism, an external locus of control, low self-esteem, high
narcissism, and high Machiavellianism. These characteristics promote leadership
behavior that is largely self-service.
Character is based on the
core values of the leader. Character influences his/her vision, goals,
self-concept, strategies, work ethic, attitude, perception, code of ethics,
behavior, and the search for excellence (Sankar, 1997). Character, therefore is
an evaluation of personality. Becker (1998) grounds character of the leader on
integrity ‘Good character’ means at least in part, that the individual has
integrity. This is directly related to performance on the job.
Zauderer (2000) identifies
specific behaviors of a leader associated with integrity as a super ordinate
value on which character is rooted. How does one’s integrity affect the trust
of others and the strength of the commonwealth? In attempting to identify
specific behaviors, a far-reaching search of literature that included religion,
philosophy, biographies of great leaders, psychology, and business and
government ethics was conducted. Cross-cutting moral themes and principles were
identified and described in the following list: (The behaviors are expressed
in a negative form – the opposite behavior follows in parentheses and italics) A
leader’s integrity is compromised when he or she: displays arrogance (possess
humility), promotes self-interest (maintain concern for the greater good),
practices deception (be truthful), breaches agreements (fulfill
commitments), deals unfairly (strive for fairness), shifts blame
(take responsibility), diminishes dignity (have respect for the
individual), retains envy (celebrate the good fortune of others),
neglects employee development (develop others), avoids risks (reproach
unjust acts), holds grudges (be forgiving), declines to extend self
(extend self for others).
A strategy based on
integrity holds organizations to a more robust standard. While compliance is
rooted in avoiding legal sanctions, organizational integrity is based on the
concept of self-governance in accordance with a set of guiding principles
(Paine, 2000). From the perspective of integrity, the task of ethics management
is to define and give life to an organization’s guiding values, to create an
environment that supports ethically sound behavior, and to instill a sense of
shared accountability among employees. An integrity strategy is characterized
by a conception of ethics as a driving force of an enterprise and the leader.
Ethical values shape the search for opportunities, the design of organizational
systems, and the decision-making process used by individuals and groups. Kets
de Vries (1994) connects some sub-values of a leader’s character. Among the
traits that have been discerned regularly among effective leaders are
conscientiousness, dependability, achievement orientation, dominance,
self-confidence, energy, agreeableness, intelligence, openness to experience,
and emotional stability.
The current ethical –
moral crisis in many occupations, business law, medicine, politics, and
education can be partially attributed to the absence of moral leadership in
these occupations. The crisis is a crisis of character. Many charismatic
leaders suffer from basic flaws in their character and these impact on their
vision, goals, strategies, judgment, choices, ground rules and behavior. The
character of the leader is the building block or root system of his/her
personality and of leadership excellence. Excellence unlike efficiency and
effectiveness is a value based construct, it is the ethical ground rules of the
leader that guide his vision, style, commitment, and the design of the corporate
culture. Character is the missing critical variable in leadership research.
The leader can be a mentor
or role model because of his/her character not his charisma. Mentoring is a
value-based concept. The leader’s credibility as a mentor is enhanced by her
core values, ethical vision, moral commitment and her conception of her duty to
organizational members. A leader’s behavior speaks louder than his
personality. Behavior is a function of values. To change problematic
behaviors, such as mistrust, malice, manipulation, deceit, etc…, on changes such
values as egoism, power obsessions, and greed. One practices one’s moral
calculus or virtues in the search for effective mentoring.
Virtue based ethics is the
moral guidance system for changing the negative elements of one’s character
(MacIntyre, 1985). Character is grounded on virtues such as love, integrity,
duty, patience, compassion, peace, fortitude, trust, truth and right conduct.
Charisma is not connected to virtue-based ethics but to personality ethic
focusing on etiquette, courtesy, style, image and dynamism. Character leads to
transformation of one’s personality, primarily to self-transformation of needs,
self-concept, habits, moods, values, attitudes, perception, goals and style.
Values or virtues are also the building blocks of a leader’s self concept and
therefore her self esteem and self confidence are more positive than if these
were based on elements of charisma – image, style, and dynamism. As a mentor,
the leader with a virtuous character will promote empowerment of his/her
followers rather than a culture of silence because of intimidation and the
coercive use of power and deception.
The moral intelligence,
insight and imagination of a leader are connected to his character not
charisma. What the CEO needs today in the business world is not more
information but transformation, transformation of his vision, goals,
intelligence, core values and behavior. The transformational leader is one who
couples information with insight and ideals. Moral literacy consists of the
basics of ethics, ethical principles, rules of conduct, conceptions of right and
wrong, moral intelligence, imagination and moral commitment to our moral
heritage and ground rules for decision-making. Moral literacy is connected to
character, not to charisma. It is from moral literacy that a leader can
articulate the core values that drive his or her vision and the ABC of ethics
namely, the essentials of an ethical culture of his or her organization.
Leadership is crucial to
the organization’s ethical culture, as integrity (or the lack of it) flows from
the top down. According to a report from the Business Roundtable, a group of
senior executives from major American corporations, leadership is crucial to
organizational ethics. The report issued by the Business Roundtable – also –
discussed ethics, policy, and practice in one hundred member companies,
including GTE, Xerox, Johnson & Johnson, Boeing, and Hewlett-Packard. In the
experience of the surveyed companies, the single most important factor in
ethical decision-making was the role of top management in providing commitment,
leadership, and example for ethical values.
This article contributes
to our understanding of leadership excellence by providing a more comprehensive
focus on two variables, namely, character and charisma, than previous research.
Another contribution of this article is the integration of ethics, personality
and mentoring literature. Finally, the greatest contribution of our research
may well be the generation of future research. In future research, an attempt
should be made to further define the elements of the key construct, namely,
character in terms of core values.
The leader plays a
critical role in the propagation of an ethical culture within his/her
organization. In view of the ethical-moral crisis in many occupations it can be
deduced that this crisis is indicative of the absence of moral leadership in
these organizations. Too often, the emphasis has been placed on the expertise,
power, charisma, information, personality traits, strategic vision, and
organizational characteristics in leadership research at the expense of the
leader’s moral character. The leader’s character is a strategic source of power
for in fusing the culture of his/her organization with a code of ethics, moral
vision, imagination, and courage. Leadership excellence cannot be evaluated
without an assessment of the leader’s character (Sankar, 2003, p. 45-55).”
Reference: Sankar, Y. (2003).
Character not charisma is the critical measure of leadership excellence. The
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Emotional Intelligence
THE NEW
CRITICAL COMPETENCE
Tom has
been with BestCo Foods for twenty-five years. In the early years, he moved up
quickly, becoming an assistant store manager within seven years of being hired.
He was promoted to store manager in another five years. Tom was good with
customers. He could “turn on the charm” when he needed to, and customers often
loved him. In the past he had good relationships with his bosses. Things haven’t
always been so positive, though, with the folks he’s managed. Good department
heads began asking for transfers, and two years ago, as the labor market
tightened, he began to have real retention problems. In exit interviews his
employees said that Tom would explode when someone made a suggestion he didn’t
like or reported something that had gone wrong with a customer. They said that
Tom never seemed to care about them - ignored them when their children were born
or when close family members died. Tom has recently been moved to a regional
staff role at a lower salary, and now has only a few people reporting to him.
Introduction
Tom is
lacking in Emotional Intelligence (EQ) - the capacity for recognizing our own
feelings and those of others, the capacity for managing our own emotions, and
the capacity for building relationships with others. According to research by
Daniel Goleman, Emotional Intelligence is
twice as
important as any other factor in predicting outstanding performance in the
workplace - more important than technical competence or IQ.
At high
levels of leadership EQ is even more important. When star senior leaders are
compared to average ones, more than 85% of the difference in their profiles was
attributable to emotional intelligence factors, not cognitive ones. Research at
Turknett Leadership Group shows the same trend. When comparing the best leaders
we have coached (those rated highest by their coworkers) with those rated
lowest, there is almost no difference in technical skill. The greatest
differences come in EQ dimensions - the ability to facilitate teamwork, to
motivate others, and to be an inspirational role model.
Research by
Center for Creative Leadership, confirmed by our research, shows that arrogance
and the inability to manage relationships with others are the top causes of
executive derailment.
The Areas of
Emotional Intelligence
Self-Awareness: The ability to recognize one’s feelings, to monitor them and
know how one is coming across to others
Self-Regulation: The ability to handle feelings so they are appropriate.
Involves the capacity to soothe oneself, to shake off worries, gloom or
irritability, and to bounce back from setbacks.
Self-Motivation: The ability to marshal one’s emotions in the service of a goal.
Involves being able to delay gratification, stifle impulsiveness, and stay
focused on the task or goal at hand.
Empathy: The
ability to recognize emotions in others. People who are empathic are more
attuned to the subtle social signals that indicate what others need or want.
Social
Skills: The ability to relate well with others and manage the emotions of
others. People who excel in this area are able to interact smoothly with others,
are persuasive, and understand how to motivate others.
Increasing
Importance of Emotional Intelligence
Some level
of emotional intelligence has always been important for success in the
workplace. The old style leaders who moved to top levels in organizations
usually had an ability to manage upward and could relate well with customers.
They often, however, lacked real empathy, and
they didn’t
spend a lot of time reflecting on their impact on others. They definitely didn’t
worry about managing emotions. If they were angry, they let it show. They
berated bearers of bad news, and taught their underlings by their behavior to
“keep your face to the boss and your
backside to
the customer.” They didn’t view creating a motivating environment as part of
their job. Their attitude was, “You should thank me for giving you a job.” Many
old style successful leaders were socially astute and self aware enough to
manage customers, build superficial
relationships, and keep the organization running smoothly.
The
situation has changed now. It takes higher levels of emotional intelligence to
build a strong company in the information age. It takes empathy, self
regulation, and true engagement to get commitment and the best work from today’s
workers, it takes a higher level of EQ to deal with more demanding customers,
and it takes high levels of emotional intelligence to retain employees in
any kind of business.
There are
four major reasons for the increased importance of EQ:
The changing
nature of work
Generation X
and what they demand in terms of management
The tight
labor market
Increasing
customer demands
Managers who
are both self-aware and empathetic are sensitive to the feelings of others and
really care about them. Their understanding of and ability to form lasting
relationships with employees and customers is much greater. They can tell
whether employees are challenged and
engaged.
According to research by Gallup, one of the twelve questions that makes a
difference in whether people stay or leave an organization is “Does my
supervisor or someone at work seem to care about me as a person?”
When
managers develop the highest levels of emotional intelligence, they have the
relationship-building skills that can create an organization that moves fast and
solves problems quickly, and whose employees are committed and energized.
Managers set the tone so that employees are honest with them - they let
employees know that getting issues on the table quickly is important, and they
don’t explode when they hear bad news. Managers with high emotional intelligence
think before acting. They can hear the truth, whether it comes from customers or
within the organization. They move around the organization, listening and
building relationships. They are able to understand the needs of others, to read
emotional reactions, and to motivate through what’s important to the other
person. They are able to motivate themselves to achieve, and can inspire
commitment and hard work from others even in difficult times.
For more
information, please call Turknett Leadership Group at 770–270–1723.
Three Legs of
Persuasion
By Chris widener
If you have heard me talk about leadership at all, you will know that I have a
very simple definition of Leadership. Leadership is simply: Influence. That’s
it. Simple. When you lead, you influence. To lead others is to influence them
through various means to follow you to your vision of a preferred thought,
belief or action.
One of the key ways to do so is to increase your ability to persuade people.
Now, at first glance you may do as many do and think of persuasion as simply a
verbal plea or argument (in the positive sense of the word) that seeks to change
someone’s mind. I want to focus in on what I believe to be a much more well
rounded view of persuasion, one that has been around for many hundreds of years,
and which, when applied, will increase your ability to persuade others, or
influence them.
My basic points for this article are found from Aristotle’s “The Rhetoric.” They
are what I call the “Three Legs of Persuasion.” Together they enable us to fully
persuade people. Miss any of the three legs and it is like trying to sit on a
three-legged stool that is missing one leg!
What are the three legs? They are:
Logos, or Logic
Pathos, or Passion
Ethos, or Ethics
Let’s start with the two that are most prevalent, Logic and Passion, and end
with what I consider to be the most important, Ethics. In order to master the
art of persuasion, you must have:
1. Logic. Your vision must make sense to the person who is following you (or the
one you are trying to get to follow you!). How is this done?
Vision. Do you have a vision of where it is that you want to go? Do you have the
destination in mind? If you want people to follow you, you need to have a
vision, an end result that you are targeting.
Clarity. Is the vision clear? Can it be articulated clearly? Is it simple enough
to grasp? Does it make sense?
Communication. Can you communicate your vision so that it is understandable and
compelling? Do you communicate it regularly so that the logic of it sinks in?
Strategy. The strategy for getting to your destination must be logical for your
followers. Does it make sense for them to follow you on the journey of your
vision for your organization? A well-thought out strategy for getting to your
vision is a must.
2. Passion. People underestimate the principle of passion. Today more than ever,
this element of being passionate about your vision is paramount to the idea of
persuasion.
As we leave the modern era and move into what sociologists are calling the
“post-modern” era, people are going to be persuaded less by logic and reason
than they are passion. We live in a video age that uses images and music to move
people more than sense and reason. For example, think about how basketball shoes
are sold today. They ads don’t say, “These shoes are made from the finest rubber
and leather and will sustain the shock of x amount of
pounds of pressure, etc,
etc.” No,
today shoes are sold by showing basketball players dribbling the ball to a
methodical beat. Image. Passion.
So do we throw out logic? Certainly not, but we understand that the passion we
demonstrate is extremely important. Probably more important than logic and
increasingly so in the years to come.
Are you passionate about your vision? Does that come through when you speak
about it? Does it come through in the materials that you distribute to support
your vision?
People want to know that you are passionate about your vision. If you aren’t
passionate about it, then why should they be? Your vision must be passionately
compelling. After all, you are asking them to put themselves on the line, to
give it all to get the group to the vision. It takes a passionate person to move
a group toward a vision. And the bigger the vision, the more passion you need to
get there!
3. Ethics. This is what I believe to be the most important aspect of these three
legs of persuasion. Ethics. Integrity. Character. However you want to say it,
people look at you and are constantly judging your character.
You may have tremendous skills. You may have all the logic in the world and
passion to fill a sporting arena, but if your followers see a crack in your
character, they will run for the hills. Now don’t get me wrong. I am not talking
about mistakes. Followers will allow for mistakes. But they will not allow for
poor character.
I know what you must be thinking: Wait a minute. We have all sorts of leaders
with poor character - just look at the politicians! A few thoughts on that very
good question:
Many of the people we think have poor character have many others (and in a
politician’s case, they just need 51%) who think their character is fine, or at
least sufficient. So for some the question of ethics has been answered, just
differently than we would answer it. For example, polls show that most people
think that politicians are unethical and corrupt in general. But when polled on
their own representative, they answer that that person is just fine, thank you
very much.
Secondly, we have seen that very talented public leaders are eventually undone
by their lack of character, or at least thwarted in their goals of leadership.
Where does this leave us? Hopefully you aren’t dealing with the kind of issues
we have seen in our political process lately, but you should be asking yourself
what your character is like.
Am I honest? Am I who I say I am? Do I do what is right? Am I responsible? Am I
the same behind closed doors as I am in public? Am I a person of integrity?
These are the most important questions. The way your followers answer them about
you will determine to what degree they follow you. Will people follow you if
your character is less than stellar? Maybe. But all other things being the same,
a strong character will put you over the top.
Logic, passion and ethics are the three legs of persuasion. Become a person with
a vision that is logical and well thought out, combine that with a passionate
pursuit, and you are well on your way to persuading people and achieving the
goal for your organization. The key will be what kind of character you have. If
you develop a fine, strong character, with high personal ethics, you will have
all three legs of persuasion - and you will become an Extraordinary Leader!
Chris
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